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Meditations on God

  • Robert Van Valkenburgh

  • Sharing Strength And Weakness

    We are not here to be alone.

    Nor should we try to do everything on our own. 

    We are going to need help at some point in our lives.

    In fact, we may need help in some way every single day, even many times throughout each day.  

    We simply cannot do everything ourselves. 

    None of us is unique in this aspect of existence. 

    We cannot be strong in all things. 

    Where we are weak, it is important to acknowledge this and to ask for help in whatever areas we may be lacking.  

    This does not mean that we should cease trying to improve, however. 

    On the contrary, we should work tirelessly to become better people, to grow and build new skills, and to strengthen our character in whatever ways we can. 

    True strength, however, comes from humility.

    It comes from acknowledging where we need others, as well as asking for and accepting the help they have to offer. 

    We are all made better by this simple act of sharing our strengths and weaknesses for collective improvement. 

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    January 25, 2021
    assistance, community, help, humility, sharing, strength, vulnerability, weakness

  • Lazy Emotions

    Fear, anger, and frustration are lazy emotions. 

    They are easy to acquire and difficult to be rid of. 

    They require nothing from us. 

    They give us the illusion of safety and protection without us having to take any action. 

    Courage, on the other hand, requires effort. 

    It requires vulnerability and risk. 

    Courage demands that we do something.

    And, the action courage requires is almost certain to be difficult. 

    It is usually something we would rather not have to do at all. 

    That which courage demands of us is exactly that which fear, anger, and frustration excuse us from doing and becoming. 

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    January 24, 2021
    action, anger, courage, fear, frustration, risk, vulnerability

  • Finding Room To Move

    Not all of life’s challenges can be faced head on, nor overcome with force exerted directly against force. 

    Some things come at us too quickly, too unexpectedly, and too powerfully for us to successfully brace and push back against them.

    In these instances, we will have to be pliable. 

    We will have to be flexible. 

    And, we will have to be adaptable. 

    There has to be room in our hearts, minds, and lives for us to move and to grow. 

    In order to find this room, we must learn where and when to soften up our approach, to yield, and to pivot.

    Our survival and our success depends on it. 

    If we are inflexible for too long, we will eventually break. 

    It is far better to give and to survive than to resist and to perish. 

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    January 23, 2021
    adaptation, flexibility, pliability, success, survival

  • Fumbling Forward

    We are all just fumbling through life, trying to do our best. 

    None of us truly knows what we are doing or what tomorrow will bring. 

    We make educated, or sometimes not so educated, guesses or predictions.

    And, then we hope things will work out. 

    Sometimes we are successful with our efforts.

    Other times, we fail. 

    But, we are all just fumbling forward, trying to do what we think is right. 

    It is true that some of us are luckier than others. 

    Some of us have more opportunities or assistance along the way.  

    Some of us make better guesses or predictions. 

    Some of us simply work harder at the correct things. 

    All of us, however, face the same struggle every day, even if it manifests itself differently in our vastly different lives.

    We all struggle to figure out what we are doing, what we should do next, why, and how to do it. 

    We should keep this in mind when we look at each other, before we criticize, judge, or condemn one another. 

    If we can just acknowledge our common struggle, perhaps we can see that we are not that different after all. 

    Perhaps we can we can have a bit more compassion, patience, and understanding with one another as we fumble, stumble, and trudge our way from one day to the next. 

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    January 22, 2021
    compassion, failure, fumbling, life, mistakes, patience, stumbling, success, trudging, understanding

  • Adjusting Expectations

    Relationships, no matter what kind, can sometimes be challenging. 

    There are expectations on all side of every relationship. 

    These expectations are often unspoken, misspoken, or misunderstood. 

    This can lead to all manner of navigational difficulty. 

    It can cause conflict, resistance, and oppositional forces that jeopardize both the relationship and the goals of all who are involved. 

    This may even happen unintentionally.

    In fact, most of the time, people have good intentions that are simply not communicated well enough to come across as such. 

    It is important, therefore, that we are clear with what we want. 

    More so, it is critical that we express this in a way that is clearly understood. 

    Even if we are perfect in this, however, things may still not go our way. 

    We must be willing to accept this reality and adjust our expectations or our course. 

    It does no one any good if we fight over something that is not going to happen anyway. 

    Unless this is a battle worthy of dying over, the sooner we can move on, the happier and more successful we will be. 

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    January 21, 2021
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