First Chances

No matter what we may think, no matter what we tell ourselves, and no matter what others may say, we could not have done things differently.  We could not have made different choices.  We could not have made better decisions.  We could not have been someone other than who we were in that moment.  We…

Regret Is Optional

Difficulty is inevitable, but regret is a choice.  No matter what path we choose, we will face difficulty along the way.  This cannot be avoided.  Of course, some paths will be easier than others, but none will be free of difficulty.  If difficulty is inevitable, the choice we must make, then, is not which path…