No one likes to feel taken advantage of, least of all for being generous. It is embarrassing and painful. But it does not mean you should stop being generous, simply that you should be more discerning with your generosity. Generosity was and is not the problem. The problem is the persons to whom you are … Continue reading Refocusing Generosity
When you live a life according to spiritual principles, good things will inevitably come your way. Life will still be difficult, painful, and heartbreaking at times, but it will more often be joyful, rewarding, and purposeful. The gifts of the spirit are many and they are great. These gifts are meant to be shared, however; … Continue reading Spiritual Hoarding
It is very difficult to make a case against the fact that a fulfilling, meaningful life must include some amount, perhaps a large amount, of service to others. There is simply too much evidence to deny that helping those in need, regardless of degree, helps us as well. Helping others makes us happier, less self-centered, … Continue reading From Struggling To Service
There will be times when our desires will be at odds with our obligations. We will have to choose between what we want for ourselves and what we owe others. Whether it is our time, attention, or effort, we will have to decide where to give and where to take. Our resources are limited. A … Continue reading Desires And Obligations
Fulfillment is rarely found through self-serving behavior. Selfishness may get us more of what we think we want with regards to material wealth, power, or notoriety, but it has been proven time and time again that these, alone, do not actually lead to a life of contentment, fulfillment, or happiness. To be sure, there is … Continue reading With Or In Spite Of Others
