Focus And Opportunity

Simply because we have committed a lot of time and energy to something does not mean that we should continue to do so.  When we find that our efforts are no longer producing the results we want, the best choice is not necessarily more effort.  Instead, we may need to pause, regroup, and redirect our…

Choice And Fate

If something happens to us that we could not predict, control, or change, even if it has negative longterm consequences, it does not serve us to feel bad about it.  Neither regret, guilt, nor shame will alter what happened.  Wishing it would have or could have gone differently does not bring us back in time. …

Lost Time

We cannot make up for lost time.  That is not how life works.  We do not get to go back.  There is nothing we can do to undo what is done or to do what has not been.  There is only this moment and this opportunity.  The only way to do right by our past…