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Meditations on God

  • Robert Van Valkenburgh

  • Committing To Resistance

    Sometimes the thing we try but fail at is only one adjustment away from working. 

    If we quit before we discover what the necessary adjustment is, we may never know how close we were to succeeding. 

    As it turns out, resistance is a normal and necessary part of the growth process. 

    When we meet resistance, it is often quite difficult to determine if it is something we must move through, go around, or if we should turn around and start over. 

    We do not want to waste our time and effort trying to go in a direction that will take us nowhere. 

    Likewise, we do not want to give up before having a breakthrough or making real progress. 

    Resistance is a test. 

    It challenges us to decide for ourselves exactly how committed we are to the path we are on. 

    If we know where we want to go, but meet resistance along the way, we have to make a choice, but the choice may not be obvious. 

    Once we determine that we want to or must keep going, we will need to find a way to do so in the face of the obstacles we face. 

    This will require courage, resilience, and ingenuity, but most of all, it will require commitment.

    Whether we have to adjust, pivot, or simply double-down on our efforts, if we do so half-heartedly, we are sure to fail and we might as well have just quit. 

    We must move with intention, focus, and conviction if we are going to succeed. 

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    August 20, 2021
    commitment, conviction, effort, focus, intention, obstacles, resistance, success

  • Immovable Center

    When things are going poorly for us, when life is difficult and we are struggling, we are grateful for even the tiniest bit of relief, hoping with all of our being that our circumstances and our feelings will change for the better soon. 

    When things are going well, however, when life feels easy and things seem to be going our way, we tend to take this for granted as if we deserve it and it will last forever.

    The truth is that both the bad times and the good will pass.

    Nothing is permanent.

    With this in mind, we get to decide whether or not our external circumstances should dictate our internal state.

    If the world around us is constantly changing, if it is perpetually waxing and waning between what seems to benefit us and what seems to be harmful to us, chasing one and running away from the other will having us run in circles.

    Worse yet, it will have us running in a spiral toward an abyss of unhappiness and dissatisfaction.

    If, rather than being led by our circumstances, we focus on our center, on our consistency and our stability, we may find ourselves standing in the eye of the storm of life, observing it as it spins around us instead of being drawn into the winds and the rain of life’s trials and tribulations.

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    August 19, 2021
    center, change, constancy, impermanence, life

  • Guided By Compassion

    As soon as we lose our compassion for one another, we lose our humanity. 

    Compassion is what separates us from the animals. 

    Of course, we do not need compassion to have intellects or free will, but these are wasted without it. 

    Without compassion, we are not much more than overly intelligent beasts determined to destroy ourselves and one another. 

    Compassion should guide our intellect. 

    Compassion is the proper use of free will. 

    Once we have lost our compassion, we have lost our way. 

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    August 18, 2021
    choice, compassion, free will, humanity, intellect

  • Fear Is A Choice

    People who want us to be afraid will go to great lengths to ensure that they get what they want. 

    What they want, however, should not be factored into our sense of happiness, contentment, or peace of mind. 

    If we allow them to manipulate, distract, or agitate us, they have already won. 

    Worse still, if we allow ourselves to fall prey to anger because of the actions or ideas of others, we have given them control of our minds and our lives. 

    The truth is, in most cases, fear is a choice. 

    Likewise, so are hope and optimism. 

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    August 17, 2021
    anger, fear, hope, optimism

  • Expecting Happiness

    People will disappoint us. 

    This is part of life. 

    Sometimes it will be the people we know and trust. 

    Other times it will be people we have never met, but in whom we had some degree of hope, faith, or confidence. 

    The common factor is expectation. 

    The greater our expectations, the more we have the potential to be let down. 

    Expectations are normal, however. 

    It is natural to expect good from others. 

    If we stop wanting or hoping for good from the people around us or from the world at large, we begin to lose our humanity. 

    Optimism is part of what makes our lives worthwhile. 

    It is part of what makes us different from other animals. 

    We have the ability to hope, to desire, and to look toward and try to influence the future. 

    If we want to maintain our humanity, we have to keep our expectations intact, but, if we want to live a life that is not constantly disappointing, we must also keep our expectations in check. 

    We have to find a way to be realistic without being cynical, to be hopeful without being naive, and to be optimistic without being foolish. 

    We need to find a way to be balanced in who we are, what we want or expect from others, and in how we react when things do not go the way we wish they would. 

    The world is too large and other people’s desires, motives, and behaviors are too varied and unpredictable for our happiness to be solely contingent upon what other people say and do. 

    Our happiness must be rooted in something consistent, reliable. and unwavering. 

    It cannot be based on what we expect from others. 

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    August 16, 2021
    desire, disappointment, expectations, happiness, hope, humanity, optimism

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