Meditations on God

  • Robert Van Valkenburgh

  • Living With Mistakes

    Sometimes you cannot fix your mistakes. 

    Some things you simply have to live with. 

    Not every wrong can be righted. 

    Not every word or action can be taken back, or even forgiven. 

    Sometimes all you can do is learn from your mistakes and move on, trying to not make the same mistake again. 

    There are some offenses, some harms that cut too deep or do too much damage to be healed. 

    This should not stop you from trying to make amends, however. 

    But you should know that not all amends will be accepted. 

    This should incentivize you to not put yourself into a position wherein you will have to ask for forgiveness, but this is an impossible task. 

    No one is perfect. 

    You will make mistakes, some of which you can righten and some of which you will have to live with. 

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    October 15, 2023
    amends, forgiveness, mistakes

  • The Path Of Bravery

    Once you, yourself, have done something brave, it becomes easier to celebrate the bravery of others.

    You know how difficult it is to step forward and put it on the line.

    You have experienced fear, doubt, and internal resistance, and you have taken courageous action in spite of these.

    This gives you empathy for others who face and overcome such challenges, no matter how insignificant these challenges may seem to those who have never done so.

    You know the strength it requires to step into the dark unknown and to continue moving forward without promise of light or comfort on the other side, and so when you witness this strength in others, you rejoice.

    There is no brave way around fear, only through it.

    There is no courage without risk.

    Vulnerability, not safety, is the way of true strength.

    Having experienced this, you celebrate those who choose the path of bravery because you know how difficult it is, but you also sympathize with those who do not choose this path because you know how difficult it is.

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    October 14, 2023
    bravery, courage, empathy, inner strength, sympathy

  • Your Value

    Knowing your value requires wisdom.

    Insisting on being valued, on the other hand, requires courage.

    It does not matter what you think your value is as a person if you are unwilling or unable to stand up for yourself.

    This does not mean trying to force people who do not value you to do so.

    It would be foolish to think that everyone will appreciate you or see your worth.

    Once you know your own value, however, it is up to you to set a standard for how you are treated and then to maintain that standard.

    Doing so is not easy.

    In order to be valued, you will have to risk not being liked.

    Integrity requires courage.

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    October 13, 2023
    courage, integrity, value, worth

  • Truth And Understanding

    You cannot possibly understand everything that comes to pass in this beautiful and tragic life.

    There is simply too much complexity to it all.

    Assuming you know what is happening and why will lead to all sorts of absurd conclusions and decisions.

    Of course, you need some level of certainty in your life just to function.

    You need to know that there is some truth that is constant and reliable.

    But even if you are right about certain things, it does not mean that you understand the how and why of what is happening at the deepest levels of truth.

    The truth is far too complex and multidimensional.

    The more confident you are in your understanding of the truth, the more of the truth you shut yourself off to because the truth is far greater than your understanding can grasp.

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    October 12, 2023
    complexity, truth, understanding

  • Light The Way

    Let your enthusiasm guide you.

    Follow it wherever it leads.

    Do not allow fear, discouragement, or criticism to dissuade you.

    You are being called to something great.

    Listen to that quiet voice.

    It beckons you to your purpose.

    You have a path ahead of you that is uniquely your own.

    Your enthusiasm will light the way.

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    October 11, 2023
    enthusiasm, purpose, the journey, the path

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