Our Boundaries

We have no right to be angry when we allow others to cross our boundaries.  Our integrity is ours, not theirs, to maintain.  Of course, people who respect us will also respect our boundaries, but only if we do first.  On the other hand, people who do not respect us may never respect our boundaries,…

Truth In Service

It is not a secret that helping others makes us feel better about ourselves and our lives.  It frees us from our self-centered problems and feelings for a little while and gives us a sense of purpose and fulfillment.  A problem arises, however, when we help others in a way that compromises our values, violates…

A Balanced Stance

There will be times when we must be rigid in our stance toward life’s circumstances.  Other times, we must be yielding.  Both of these attributes must be available to us if we are to be successful.  They must exist inside of us to be called upon as necessary, to be used when needed.  We have…