If we want people to listen to us, we should begin by first listening to them. People tend to listen better when they feel heard. When they do not feel heard, they often become deaf to what we have to say. Why shouldn’t they? If we are unwilling to listen to them, why should they…
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Empathy And Companionship
Quite often, when someone else is suffering, we assume they need what we would need if we were in the same situation. However, we all deal with suffering differently. We all need different things, at least on a superficial level, when we are struggling with life’s difficulties. But, deep down, we all want to know…
Expansive Adversity
Adversity has the potential to give us empathy. If we allow it to, it can help us to see the world in a whole new light. Experiencing our own fragility and vulnerability helps us to see how fragile and vulnerable others are. This experience, if we are conscious enough and willing enough, can actually increase…
Offering Comfort
When we see that someone is vulnerable and in pain, we have a choice to make. We can either choose to ignore them, comfort them, or attack them in their moment of weakness. It may seem obvious which choice will lead to the most good for that person, but life does not always provide us…
Empathy For Other
We cannot claim to have empathy while also claiming to not understand why others have different beliefs, opinions, and values than us. We cannot claim compassion while also claiming ignorance of the other. If we cannot imagine how and why someone sees the world from a different perspective than we do, we cannot say that…