This may seem obvious, but, if it were, a lot more would get accomplished than actually does from day to day.
Instead, we think about what we want to happen.
We talk about what we want to happen.
We complain about what has already happened and we worry about what may happen.
None of this actually creates the change we want to see in ourselves, our relationships, or in the world around us, however.
Change is created by action.
Change is created by one force acting on another.
All of the other stuff, all of the thinking and all of the talking, all of the complaining and all of the worrying, is really just wasted energy unless it causes a change to take place.
So, if change is what we want, we must take action.
People may not take our ideas seriously until they see them materialize.
If we have unpopular ideas, that is to say, if we have ideas that are not popular because they are too new, too different, or too disruptive to have caught on yet, we cannot expect people to believe that we are serious unless we show them proof.
The best evidence that we are serious about something, especially something extraordinary, innovative, or outlandish, is to do it.
No one owes us belief. No one owes us trust. No one owes us respect. All of these must be earned through effort, through action, and through results.
Over time, if our ideas prove out, if they do what they say they would and if we do what we say we would with them, we may gain a reputation for having good ideas that are worth pursuing, worth believing in, and worth investing time and resources in.
There is no guarantee of this, however. In the world of unpopular ideas, there is a fine line between perceived genius and perceived madness, and that line is drawn with results.
Holistic Budo: As it is in budo, so too it is in life. As it is in life, so too it is in budo.
Robert Van Valkenburgh is co-founder of Taikyoku Mind & Bodyand Kogen Dojo where he teaches Taikyoku Budo and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu.
All photos by Robert Van Valkenburgh unless otherwise noted.
Progress does not have to be extreme, but it has to be consistent and it has to be observable.
We all need to feel like we are making progress in our lives, like our lives have purpose and meaning. One way to accomplish this is to set measurable, achievable goals for each day. These goals can extend out to weeks, months, and years, but starting with daily goals is easy and, ultimately, we want to establish a routine that is ‘sticky,’ that we actually adhere to, not a routine that is so difficult that we quit shortly after starting.
In order to feel like we are making progress, it is essential that our goals are both measurable and achievable because measurability allows us to track our results and achievability ensures that we see results quickly and consistently. Tracking our goals and our results is important because writing them down, whether on paper, on a white board, or on a spreadsheet, makes them real and undeniable. Seeing results quickly and consistently gives us momentum and momentum will keep us going when desire does not.
What does this all mean in simple terms? It means to set a goal of doing one more rep, to lift one more pound, to run, bike, or walk for one more minute or for one more tenth of a mile, to take one more deep, meditative breath, to write one more sentence, to read one more page, to learn one more recipe, to spend one minute more outside, to reach out to one more person, or simply to be present for one more moment than yesterday. This all starts with writing down our goals, making a plan, and then taking action, consistently.
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Holistic Budo: As it is in budo, so too it is in life. As it is in life, so too it is in budo.
Robert Van Valkenburgh is co-founder of Taikyoku Mind & Body and Kogen Dojo where he teaches Taikyoku Budo and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu.
All photos by Robert Van Valkenburgh (artist unknown, unless otherwise noted).
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