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Meditations on God

  • Robert Van Valkenburgh

  • Empathy And Companionship

    Quite often, when someone else is suffering, we assume they need what we would need if we were in the same situation. 

    However, we all deal with suffering differently. 

    We all need different things, at least on a superficial level, when we are struggling with life’s difficulties. 

    But, deep down, we all want to know that we are loved and that we are not alone. 

    While we may each work through our troubles in our own unique way, this underlying truth seems to be a constant of the human condition. 

    For this reason, instead of trying to help others by offering the solutions that might work for us in their situation, we are often better off trying to help them by offering them empathy and companionship. 

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    May 10, 2021
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  • An Internal Refuge

    “The only way to survive these times is if you have a meditation practice.” – Gabby Bernstein, 2016

    Five years after this statement was made, it is truer now more than ever. 

    By all measure, the outside world seems to be growing evermore chaotic and confusing by the day. 

    On the whole, we are more distracted, more anxious, and more at odds with one another than ever before. 

    Our sense of security, stability, and community is shaken. 

    Peace of mind is difficult to come by. 

    Nothing feels constant or reliable. 

    For this reason, or many more, we need to create a place within ourselves wherein we can find refuge. 

    We need to build a home of deep quiet and calm into which we can withdraw for rest and comfort. 

    Action alone is not enough to bring us peace. 

    We have to learn to be still. 

    Exactly how we do this and where this source of stillness comes from is a whole other much more complex, or at least contentious, topic for discussion. 

    There many ways to meditate and there are many theological, spiritual, and scientific beliefs around what is happening and why it works. 

    My goal is not to tell anyone what path to take or why, but, for those who are curious, my personal path, my calling, if you will, has taken me to the contemplative prayer tradition of the Christian mystics. 

    After having tried many different methods over the years with as many different intentions, this is where I have found my home. 

    My great hope is that more people begin to seek out a meditation practice of their own, for their own sake, for the sake of the world around us, and, if it feels true to you, for God who may be calling you to contemplation as I feel I have been called. 

    We all need a little bit of peace, comfort, and solace these days, and this seems to be a simple, albeit not necessarily easy, way to start. 

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    May 9, 2021
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  • Solitude And Counsel

    Sometimes our prayers are answered in silence. 

    Other times, they are answered through people. 

    We never know which it will be. 

    So, we need both. 

    We need solitude, reflection, and contemplation so that we can create a willing space in our hearts to receive inspiration and guidance. 

    Likewise, we need counsel from others who behave like a mirror for us, showing us a reflection of ourselves we could not have seen on our own. 

    The trick, as with most things, is finding a healthy balance between these. 

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    May 8, 2021
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  • A Love Never Withdrawn

    Whether consciously or subconsciously, I have long held the belief that if I make the wrong decision, take the wrong action, or even have the wrong intention, God will abandon me, that He* will withdraw His love, and that He will punish me with His absence. 

    But, this is not how God behaves. 

    God’s love is infinite, eternal, and unconditional. 

    This belief is not based on how I have been treated by God, but by how I have been treated by people and how I have, in turn, treated others. 

    But, God is not us and God’s love is not withdrawn. 

    We may withdraw from God’s love, but God does not withdraw His love from us. 

    God’s love is ever-present as a gift waiting for us to accept it. 

    And, this gift is being offered to us at all times, regardless of our decisions, actions, or intentions. 

    While these may block us from being able to accept the gift of God’s love because of pride, fear, or obstinance, the gift remains and remains and remains. 

    There is nothing, absolutely nothing, that we can think, say, or do that will abandon us to this love. 

    We abandon God. 

    God does not abandon us. 

    All we have to do in order to receive the gift of his loving grace and mercy is to turn toward Him and open our hearts and minds to His eternal and infinite presence in all things, including our confusion, fear, and stubbornness. 

    God is here with us. 

    We need only to choose to be here with Him. 

    * I realize that, in referring to God in the masculine/paternal sense, I risk alienating some, but this is not my intention. If God is anything at all, He or She exists both beyond and within all genders. I only use masculine/paternal pronouns for continuity. 

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    May 7, 2021
    abandonment, confusion, fear, grace, love, mercy

  • Love Is Selfless

    Love makes us want to take away the pain of others. 

    It does not want others to feel pain, including our own pain. 

    Love is generous and patient. 

    It does not force itself on others, making demands and insisting on having its’ way for threat of consequences. 

    Love is forgiving. 

    It does not punish others for wrongdoings, whether they be perceived or real. 

    Love is constant.  

    It does not abandon or threaten to abandon others out of spite or retribution. 

    Love is beyond us, inside of us, and around us. 

    Love makes us want to do better and to be better. 

    And, love does this not for our sake, even if we may benefit, but for the sake of others and for the sake of itself. 

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    May 6, 2021
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