Meditations on God

  • Robert Van Valkenburgh

  • To Be Weird

    It is difficult to be weird.

    It can be confusing and discouraging to feel like a stranger amongst your peers.

    When you try to relate to others but always feel out of touch or out of step, life can be very lonely.

    Try to remember that you are only strange relative to the company you keep.

    Do not lose hope.

    Do not give up.

    There are others out there who feel just as strange, just as alien, and just as alone as you do.

    They are waiting for you just like you are waiting for them.

    When you find each other, life will start to make sense.

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    December 5, 2023
    alone, belonging, friend, friendship, lonely, purpose, strange, weird

  • What Others Think

    If you spend too much time worrying about what other people think about you, you will begin to lose sight of who you are.

    In truth, what other people think of you is none of your business.

    While this is not an excuse to behave badly, it is a mindset that will free you from uselessly fretting over the opinions and feelings of others.

    At the end of the day, regardless of what others think, you have to live with yourself.

    If all of your time and energy is spent trying to please, or at least not displease others, your life is no longer your own.

    Trying to be who you are while also trying to be who others expect, desire, or imagine you to be is impossible, not to mention exhausting.

    It is difficult enough to be yourself without worrying about what others think.

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    December 4, 2023
    opinions, self expression

  • Peaceful Discomfort

    It is easy to be at peace in peaceful situations.

    When no one or nothing is challenging you, it is not difficult to find a sense of ease and comfort.

    Life is not often without conflict, however.

    There will be very few situations or relationships in your life wherein peace is simply handed to you.

    Peace is something that must be sought.

    Peace is something that must be cultivated.

    Peace is something that must be practiced.

    The goal is to be at peace in difficulty, in conflict, and even in chaos.

    You do not get to choose what life throws at you so you must aim to find peace in both the good and the bad.

    This is no easy task.

    In fact, it may take a lifetime.

    One thing is for sure, however, you will not accomplish this by avoiding that which causes you discomfort.

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    December 3, 2023
    life, peace, practice

  • Curiosity Over Certainty

    Do not assume, just because something has worked for you, that you are correct.

    You may simply be lucky.

    Or you just might not have come across the right obstacle.

    You can always learn more.

    There is always room for growth.

    Remain open to the possibility that you might be wrong.

    By doing so, life opens up to you.

    Instead of being closed off to life’s possibilities, you give yourself permission to encounter new ideas and experiences.

    Do not limit yourself by assuming you have it all figured out.

    Life is full of mysteries that are only available to the curious, not the certain.

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    December 2, 2023
    certainty, curiosity, open mindedness, possibility

  • Rooted In Anger

    When your decisions are rooted in anger, you have already made a mistake.

    Anger muddies the waters.

    It blinds you from seeing things clearly.

    It skews your decisions in a direction that may not be in your best interest, and they certainly are not in anyone else’s best interest.

    When you are angry, pause before you speak or act.

    Take a moment to breathe and to think things through.

    Ask yourself who you want to be.

    Ask yourself if what you are about to say or do will move you toward or away from that person.

    Consult with a level-headed friend or loved one if necessary.

    Confide in someone you trust to tell you the truth.

    People who antagonize you when you are angry are not looking out for you.

    They are not going to have your back when you fail.

    Patience is your friend, prudence is your ally, and compassion is your compass.

    Let love, not anger, guide you.

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    December 1, 2023
    anger, compassion, friendship, patience, prudence

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