If you are looking for reasons to be upset, you will undoubtedly find them.
Whether real or imagined, there will always be something you can be angry about, afraid of, or hurt by if that is where you choose to focus your attention.
In fact, the more you focus on the negative or the potentially negative, the more evidence you will find to justify your anger, fear, and self pity.
The universe starts to accommodate your attitude and begins giving you what you are looking for.
This will go on for as long as you would rather be upset than at peace. The choice is yours.