Self-Centered Pain

We often underestimate just how painful self-centeredness can be.  It seems like it will serve us.  It feels like it will make us happy.  Getting what we think we want all of the time should make us happy, after all.  Quite often, however, this strategy backfires on us.  In order for us to get what…

Beyond Ourselves

The problem with self-centered people is that they tend to not even realize they are self-centered.  It never occurs to them that the world does not revolve around their desires or demands.  They are so blinded by self that they cannot see what others need or want.  When this is brought to their attention, they…