Regret Is Optional

Difficulty is inevitable, but regret is a choice.  No matter what path we choose, we will face difficulty along the way.  This cannot be avoided.  Of course, some paths will be easier than others, but none will be free of difficulty.  If difficulty is inevitable, the choice we must make, then, is not which path…

Deciding On Traction

“I’m going to never think about these knobs again. I’m never going to think about this guitar again. These are the settings and I’m now just going to worry about being creative with the sound I have… I’ve got the guitar I’ve got and now I’m going to put all of my energy into imagination…

Distracted By Options

Our progress is hindered by having too many options. Too many options distract us from our path, from our goals, and from our target. They make it easy to lose focus, to get distracted, and to chase after the things that do not matter. Instead of seeking more options, we should spend our time and…

Time To Live

A little time goes a long way.  With time being our only truly non-renewable resource, how we spend it matters. If we use our time doing our best to avoid intimacy, connection, and deep, meaningful relationships, we should not be overly surprised when we find ourselves alone and lonely.  If, on the other hand, we use…