If we spend our lives seeking and finally find what we have been looking for, the result may be that we feel more lost than ever. For some of us, the seeking itself gives us purpose. The constant movement toward something — or away from something — gives our lives meaning. If we are fortunate … Continue reading Lost In Finding
Our actions point to our values. We may think or say that we value certain things, but what we do often proves otherwise. Thoughts and words are deceptive and, through them, whether intentionally or unintentionally, we are capable of convincing ourselves and others of all manner of falsehood. Our actions, on the other hand, demonstrate … Continue reading Values In Action
By focusing on activities wherein, even if we fail, we still benefit in some way, we cannot lose. This means involving ourselves in tasks, projects, and relationships that benefit us simply by our having participated in them. In other words, if the experience itself is rewarding in some way that is of greater value than … Continue reading Winning Through Failure
Excessive pride leads to or directly causes many, if not most, of life‘s problems. But going too far in the opposite direction is no better. Negative pride turns us into perpetual pushovers, victims to the will of others, incapable of or unwilling to stand up for ourselves or anything that matters. What we need is … Continue reading Dignity Not Pride
If we challenge ourselves often enough, we will reach our breaking point. We will feel like we want to quit. In these moments, if we do not quit, if we persevere and push forward, we will learn things about ourselves and tap into parts of ourselves that would otherwise remain hidden. We may still fail. … Continue reading Worth the Effort
